The other day, we talked about why females aren’t able to find a “good” man. For the reason that article, We explained my theory that ladies are stuck in a double-bind between what they’re told through contemporary social norms and their particular biological inspiration. This I will discuss how that double-bind for women may have resulted in a double-bind for men as well week.
Today, guys are offered confusing and advice that is contradictory. Socially, they’ve been likely to be “compliant” (i.e. Cooperative) lovers to females. But, also they are advised by ladies’ intimate interest to keep a “attractive character” (in other words. Assertive and committed). Unfortuitously, males often report that trying to balance these notions will not end up in satisfaction, pleasure, or ladies’ admiration and respect.
The guys that we talk to (and whom commented to my final post) lament about being in a “no-win situation” in contemporary relationship. Them to do, they often end up “good guys” who are taken advantage of, mistreated, and disrespected if they follow what society tells.